It has been often observed that new Christians have a fervent zeal for God. They may know very little scripture, but what they lack in knowledge they make up for in their zeal and love for Jesus, his Word and the gospel. Such was I. When I was first saved by God’s grace, I was not only immediately aware that I had been “transferred from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of His glorious light,” but I was also aware of those I cared about who were still in darkness as I had been. I was also keenly aware of my sins—the whole lifetime of them.
After profuse prayers of gratitude, the Holy Spirit moved me to pray for my mother. My relationship with my mother was always a difficult one. In some ways, it was a love-hate relationship and one that caused me tremendous guilt. One of my first prayers was that God would save my mother. My burden for her soul was so great, as Paul‘s was concerning Israel, that I prayed that I might be “accursed” if only she could be saved. My second prayer was that God would help me to love my mother as I should. Of course, as is so often the case, God puts a desire in our hearts, but doesn’t reveal right away what it will take on our part to have those desires fulfilled or those prayers answered.
I remember well the day I phoned my mother, crying, and asked her to forgive me for not being the kind of daughter I should have been. I did not know how she would react or what she would say, I only knew that I had to do that. My mother became very disturbed! She began to cry hysterically and said, “What is this church you’re going to?! (After all, it was non-denominational.) “It’s some kind of cult!” Well, I didn’t know exactly what to expect, but I certainly wasn’t prepared for that! I tried to calm her and reassure her that I only wanted to be right with God, but to no avail. Some months later, Mother came to visit. I took her to church with me and to ladies Bible study. She was skeptical and felt that she was being told that her religion was wrong. But when I put her on the bus to go home, she said to me. “I can see that you are different. That you are at peace. I wish I could find that kind of peace.” I sent her home with the radio station and time of Dr. J. Vernon McGee’s broadcast “Thru the Bible” and told her he was an excellent Bible teacher and that I thought she would enjoy him. She did begin to listen to Dr. Mc Gee on the radio.
About a year and a half after I prayed those prayers, I got a call from my aunt telling me that they had taken my mother to the hospital with an infected foot and that her sugar levels were extremely high from her diabetes and that I should come. It was the night before Thanksgiving. I left about 10:00 p.m. for New Orleans, drove all night and arrived at Charity Hospital in New Orleans about 6:00 a.m. in the morning. Mother’s sugar levels were not coming down, the antibiotics were not working for the infection and the doctors were talking about amputation. I sat with mother all day as she clung with desperation and terrifying fear to her rosary. I knew that I had to speak if she was ever to know the freedom and peace that only Christ can give. With trepidation I said to her, “Mother, Mary cannot help you. And Mary cannot save you. Only Jesus can do that.” She said, “Are you telling me that my religion is wrong?” I said, “No, I’m telling you that only Jesus can help you and only Jesus can save you.” I told her, “Jesus said, “Come to me all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am meek and humble of heart and you will find rest for your soul. ” She put the rosary down and she prayed with me to ask Jesus to forgive her sins and save her. I assured her that Jesus said “I will never leave you or forsake you.” I said, “He will go with you through this, Mother, and He will give you courage.” That night my mother at the age of 63 began a personal relationship with Jesus.
This toe infection turned into a leg amputation and the beginning of all the horrors associated with the last stages of untreated diabetes. Mother came to live with us as she could not take care of herself. She required 24-hour care. I cared for her for fourteen years. I never would have thought that I could ever live with my mother again. But such was God’s way of building within me a love for her—by serving her. I struggled throughout those years with my emotions, but love is indeed more than an emotion. It is actions. I shall always be grateful for the relationship God brought about during those years. It did not come about easily. It came through great sacrifice by me and my whole family. Mother showed amazing courage and faith in the face of great suffering throughout those years. A couple of years before her death, my somewhat shy mother sang a solo, a song of tribute to her savior and friend, at a seniors’ dinner at our church. She was legally blind and could not read a hymnal, but she sat in her wheelchair and sang all the verses of “No One Ever Cared for Me Like Jesus.” Those were years I will treasure forever and a night I will never forget.
A Music Link: No One Ever Cared for Me Like Jesus by Jimmy Swaggart http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=no+one+ever+cared+for+me+like+jesus+you+tube&&view=detail&mid=A3941DFE6E655D7BFA83A3941DFE6E655D7BFA83&FORM=VRDGAR